Are you a Highly Sensitive Person? If you are frequently overwhelmed, feeling anxious, or if you’re wondering why your body and emotions are so effected by everyday life, then you may be among the 20% of the population who are genetically wired to be more aware of subtleties than most and to process information more deeply.
Although your sensitivity is a completely natural trait, many people with heightened sensory perception, such as yourself, struggle in a world where the majority of people have no way of understanding what you are experiencing – their nervous system is simply wired differently.
You can learn tools that will help you to utilize your GIFT of Sensitivity to develop healthy boundaries, radiant wisdom, creativity and healing energy.
With a willing heart, an open mind and commitment, you can learn to trust your inner guidance, rediscover your body’s wisdom and realize your life’s purpose.
The Highly Sensitive Person
Take Dr. Elaine Aron’s Self Test to find out if you are a Highly Sensitive Person. This test, the result of empirical research on the trait, gives you a good sense of what high sensitivity is, as well. To see if your child is highly sensitive there is another checklist.
According to Dr. Aron’s research, if you find you are highly sensitive, or your child is, you need to begin by knowing the following:
- Your trait is normal. It is found in 15 to 20% of the population–too many to be a disorder, but not enough to be well understood by the majority of those around you.
- It is innate. In fact, biologists have found it to be in most or all animals, from fruit flies and fish to dogs, cats, horses, and primates. This trait reflects a certain type of survival strategy, being observant before acting. The brains of highly sensitive persons (HSPs) actually work a little differently than others’.
- You are more aware than others of subtleties. This is mainly because your brain processes information and reflects on it more deeply. So even if you wear glasses, for example, you see more than others by noticing more.
- You are also more easily overwhelmed. If you notice everything, you are naturally going to be overstimulated when things are too intense, complex, chaotic, or novel for a long time.
- This trait is not a new discovery, but it has been misunderstood. Because HSPs prefer to look before entering new situations, they are often called “shy.” But shyness is learned, not innate. In fact, 30% of HSPs are extraverts, although the trait is often mislabeled as introversion. It has also been called inhibitedness, fearfulness, or neuroticism. Some HSPs behave in these ways, but it is not innate to do so and not the basic trait.
- Sensitivity is valued differently in different cultures. In cultures where it is not valued, HSPs tend to have low self-esteem. They are told “don’t be so sensitive” so that they feel abnormal.
Learn more by visiting Dr. Elaine Aron’s website